What binds us and not divides us?
The world is very noisy right now. Amidst the uncomfortable horizon of going back to school, COVID-19 swirling around each city and the political choices that the country will be making in November the chatter is very loud and there is so much of it. It’s easy to lose sight of our values, our purpose and the example we can set for our kids.
I just watched this incredible 30 min video of the QCT: Digital For Good https://youtu.be/M_VgCctli2A. It was beyond inspiring and motivating to see elsewhere adults are making it a true priority to provide platforms and limitless ways for the next generation to make a positive impact, create change and make the world a better place. As I watched and listened to these incredible leaders, sharing their associated mission-based projects/organization/channels of goodness, I wondered what our role is in all of this? As parents, Jewish parents, we have a responsibility. It’s easy to get caught in the drama of the world. It’s simple to sway in a direction that is filled with heat, fervor and animosity. Our patience is frayed due to our current history but does that mean we shouldn’t continue the work on ourselves? Can we change the way we treat one another? Are we able to alter our behaviors, right here right now to help our children understand the significance of being kind?
As I write the above questions I chuckle at what it must sound like aloud. I shake my head not because I’m doubtful but instead because I’m hopeful. It may come off as “kumbaya” and that’s ok. We all need a little more mothering and a little less anger. To question is a cultural thread that has been interwoven not only into my life but my children’s lives. I really question are we taking actions that bind us or divide us? Are our attitudes filled with wonder or ultimate doom? What are our kids hearing from us? Do our attitudes promote grace or stagnancy?
Our children will be the changing agent for the world. It’s our choice if we want to take a front or back, accelerate the impact or not. Now is the time to lift each other up. Be friendly. Embrace the suck and choose words and actions that support each other. There are so many problems. Instead of complaining how about we serve up some solutions. Our value systems are strong. It’s time to use them for good. We can be part of making this world a better place and it starts at home.